What your girlfriend/boyfriend is stealing from your teenage?



We all fantasize love and love has a completely different meaning for all of us.  The idea of love we all have during our early age is a really strong idea and we all tend to comply by the fact that we have to "live together and die together".

People who are generally soft hearted by their humanly nature tend to love in a very precise manner and we can definitely identify a pattern in their beliefs. "Love is unconditional" and "I can't live without him/her" are some of the very mainstream beliefs found across. We are really sincere and we know to live by our words of commitment, but if we stick to what we believe and don't even consider new things and new ideas, we are definitely trapped in a fixed mindset. If we welcome new ideas and reflect upon them, we can say that we possess a growth mindset.

Well, the new idea here is; Time and Energy are the two things which are the most valuable resources of human life and these are the two things which are found in abundance before we are actually thrown into life. We usually have no real responsibilities and no high expectations before we graduate. So we should work on capitalizing on these two things instead of wasting them somewhere emotionally.

Our love should be rational and our girlfriend /boyfriend is stealing our time and energy from us if we love on the basis of our emotions only and our rationality is not a parameter while making the mist important decisions of our lives.

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  2. Some valid points and a thought provoking analysis.. Keep up the good work.. 👍

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