Cheating is a choice or a mistake?

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Does monogamy lead to infidelity or its the nature of humans to cheat on their partners??

Marriages don't fall apart because couples get bored. One cheats or they fail because of the choices they make when they first meet someone. Their conscious mind pretends to be a fictional person that they feel will be liked by the other partner. But a fiction can only last a flurry of air. When it’s gone, as it can’t last forever, things hit back to normal, making us think that maybe that’s who the person was while they were dating; but then they change afterwards?

That fictional act changes our reaction to how we deal with the partner but their actions do not match how they deal with the union/partnership.
This leads to the failed marriages and break ups. One thing which is for sure is that people don’t change, at least not in any way that really matters; our fictional image blurs out with time, springing out the reality.

So basically, loyalty doesn't depend either on good/bad looks or well endowed/meager background. It depends on the nature of MEN and WOMEN..Never ever fall for such misogynistic and sexist narrative of ''OMG, he/she was so beautiful,yet got cheated on? This is telling us that somewhat that is the victim's fault that they get cheated on.Cheating often leads to wanting what is unlawful.Being hypnotized by another fictional silhouette.

Cheaters are cowards that are tempted to chase the fantasy of what could be rather than what they have.You don't have to run an affair to be a cheater;.Emotional cheating is an act of betrayal too. Once you start hiding text messages and start lying. YOU ARE ALMOST THERE.

Cheating/infidelity is a personal decision.Some people will never cheat no matter how bad things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it.

CHEATING IS CERTAINLY A CHOICE, NOT A MISTAKE.


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